Love marriage or Arranged marriage..is it like asking "Suicide" or "planned murder"?(Pun Intended*)

In Indian system, things are all scheduled. If you are 23, you gotta have a job in hand, at 25, gotto earn some decent bucks and if your tummy starts showing up, it's marriage time!!.

I might be a nerd, but I wonder if I am alone in thinking that "time for marriage" marriages sucks!.

I think if someone has not given a thought for marriage or hasn't found someone to spend their forever with , they probably are better of to be left alone. Seldom does a guy understand the dynamics of happy marriage. A guy who has been single throughout his life before marriage will soon find himself trapped in a new world where "logic" hardly matters. Imagine a nerd who cathes up an arguement with his wife..There are 2 things he can do. being rational OR just accept the fault(in most cases which is not his') and make promises so tall that would make eiffel tower look short. I speak from my observation and careful case study friends - option one is not "That is correct". As tempted as you might be in following your logic, Refrain!.

So, quit thinking you are better off with a great career. Ignorance is for sure not the bliss in this case. You are no better of than well-fed healthy goat fully grown for a divine sacrifice! .

and guys who think they are women experts, remember the application of Murphy's law "If there are 1000 types of women and if you have mastered 999 types, your wife will most likely be the 1000th type". In short, You are screwed anyways!