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Tuesday, November 21, 2006

Love might be blind but it certainly can smell!



You must have selected your guy/girl based on a thousand reasons.. Maybe,he's funny..he's cool..smart. But, here is the truth. You have selected your partner for reasons that you can't even understand or putting it otherway, you are just following your brain's interpretation of chemical compatibility.

Pheremones are odourless chemicals that are released through sweat. Nose has this special gift to smell Pheremone and send signals to brain. The brain interprets the smell and reads information about the opposite sex's immunity system. The brain will then compare your immunity system with the opposite sex's and will decide if you should "Love" him/her!!!By doing this, it makes sure the offspring can have a strong immunity against more number of ailments!.

A research conducted by a team of scientists in Switzerland confirmed this. They selected 4 women and asked them to smell unwashed T-shirts. All the four women seemed attracted to the smell from a T-chirt that emitted Pheremones that had contrasting immunity system than theirs'.

Well, that's just one in few hundreds of harmones that determines how you should feel about the person. Another chemical called Dopamine is secreted when someone falls in "love" and this harmone also is sectreted when someone is on cocaine!. Answers from where you get the "Kick" right?. Every minute reactions such as "guts" till even "divorce" are influenced by chemicals and harmones inherently controlling human emotions. For instance, serotonin is responsible for the "fun" element when you are with your lover. When serotonin levels are lower than 40% of it's usual level, you lose interest in the relationship or it's gets depressing apparently for no social reasons other than chemical or harmonal imbalances.

For those people who were breaking their heads to understand why they always fail in chemistry practicals, it is probably because your brain had always been simply obsessed with Pheremones and was not willing to look at copper suplhate. Well, this also explains why guys who got Copper sulphate right are now single. Yes, Me :(

Sunday, November 05, 2006

Wedding time!

Few occasions are like alarm clock. They wake you up to a realization that you are growing old!. Shahin's wedding is one such SWEET event. She is our dear sis. The small ,cute girl we saw in 4th grade shouldering that heavy 10 pound bag on her back. Today we witnessed her husband carrying her into their grand wedding car!. The following are the series of events that completes the wedding rituals of an Indian muslim family - 1.Engagement 2.Before wedding rituals 3. Wedding 4.Reception.
I am gonna cover all these 4 events with my N93 .so, Stay tuned!

Engagament:
Location: Yesesi Mahal, Anna Nagar


This is the first time, I met Zaher, Groom. A casual, cool , sane muslim. God knows how hard Shahin's Mom tried to find a man like Zaher. She almost brought heavens down in her 5 year long mission of finding Zaher for Shahin. It was indeed such pleasure and satisfying to watch Shaheen's face glittering .


2. Day before wedding...



Location: Zaheer's house (Showkath's bro-in-law)
Event : This is one of the rituals on the day before wedding. Tradition has it that the bride's family (except bride) will go to the groom's place and apply turmeric paste on the groom's face. Then, they will do that for bride's brother. The one in the video clip is Showkath(Shahin's bro). Natural media person.

3. Wedding
Location: Vijay Rani Mahal, Vada palani
This happens to be a big clip and google nor youtube won't allow me upload them. So, send me an email if you wanna take a look at the video :) btw, they served a delicious biriyani!!

The engagement is scheduled on 5th of Nov, 2006(Sunday). SO, see ya around...